Ive lived in So Cal five years now but still totally miss the wide open spaces of Alabama. When it comes to matters of the heart, I "view the glass half empty". Im recently divorced and not looking for anything serious. Friends with benefits at most... I would love to go have a drink, listen to some live music, chat and see if we click...[bling 22191] I totally dig trying new things under the sheets. I have never tried to whole bondage thing but, it [B]::perks::[/B] my interest. I don't really consider myself [I]kinky[/I] but there isn't much that I'm not willing to try. The only taboo I have in the bedroom is anal sex. It just isn't my thing. Having sex somewhere public where you might get caught is a total turn on for me. Adrenaline baby! One sexual fantasy I've always had is to have sex in an exotic remote location on the beach. There are many others just waiting to be found out and filled... My feelings on one night stands are that there great cause there are no strings but am more interested in having constant play partner(s). During intense play sessions I love to listen to music that is loud and heavy. I'm a bit of a metal head and love my rock music. But, sometimes i like to change it up and listen to something soothing and sensual, just depends on the passion of the moment. Sensuality-like touching, candles and massage is just as important as sex. Foreplay is overlooked too often. I like lots of touching, kissing and caressing before going straight for the good stuff...

My Ideal Person I am looking for someone who isn't afraid to "share" the dominant role when it comes to the bedroom. I can handle taking orders but like to give a few of my own. No mommas boys or collar popping pretty boys! I like a guy who is cool and confident but not cocky. I hate guys that are super pushy. Just sit back and relax. If we click we click, if i don't dig you I'm not gonna call you back. There is no point in wasting each others time...

I'm very picky about any woman that I decide to be with and its not just based on looks. I like a woman who is not superficial or overly "prissy". Tend to be more attracted to women who are on the bustier side b/c...

Male or female MUST be well groomed, clean and DD free. I'm that way and expect my partners to be as well...

Sense of humor is a def turn on for me. I love to laugh. Tattoos & piercings are a total bonus. Someone who is adventurous, free spirited & has an open mind...

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
30 Sec to Mars, Incubus, Evanesence, Metallica, Disturbed, SOAD, Breakin Benjamin, Saliva...

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Blindfolds

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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