UPDATE 6/9/15 I've been in Goldsboro for just over 2 years now and STILL have mixed feelings about the area. I've met a few new friends and have even made some meaningful connections but it seems to be difficult to make a **lasting** connection that offers fun and intimacy in this area. I travel a lot but would appreciate something with more immediacy and availability (READ: more spontaneity and less planning) Prove me wrong? I have a rewarding career, good friends, and my own "stuff" Life is pretty good for me. I'm looking for something that is both emotionally and physically satisfying. A friend who will watch movies, do karaoke, talk about life and still make my knees weak would be my ideal partner. Let's face it, this is a sex site, and like many others I am looking for sexual chemistry. However, if you are looking for a one night stand, only picture swapping, cyber sex, or just someone to online chat with, I am not your gal. While pictures and online chatting can excite me, they only do so when they are in addition to physical interaction. I do not expect, demand, or imagine exclusivity. What I do demand is that you make me feel like I am first, like my pleasure is your ultimate goal. I'm a true girl - I want to feel like the most beautiful princess at the ball. I like to "date." While discretion is important (I do not want to be in public explaining to people in my professional life why "some guy" was groping me at the bar), I do want someone who is comfortable going to dinner, a movie, dancing, or to gatherings with like minded sexy people. Keep in mind, I do have ren, so I am not always available "at the drop of a hat." They will always come first. I am by no means perfect in mind or body, and I do not expect that in a partner - my expectation is only to be able to comfortable and active. I mean - not old slippers comfortable - but I well worn in pair of sneakers or dress shoes :) If you are truly interested, you should message me with where you'd like to meet and what your ideal "date" would look like.

My Ideal Person My ideal person - I guess I'm looking for someone with the perfect blend, of intimacy and kink. MY ideal partner would be powerful enough to take control any time he wants but so lost in me that he can't maintain control. I need someone who kisses me so deeply that I feel it in my toes. A man who is interested in me should also be comfortable with all levels of intimacy - massages, cuddling, intelligent conversation, mental stimulation, sexual tension, and experimentation. HE should be willing to try new experiences in and out of the bedroom. Most of all he should be honest and direct. I understand that nothing on this site is permanent- I can not offer forever and don't like to connotation of the word. However, I do expect communication if the friendship is not meeting the expectations of either partner. Therefore, men should be open communicators.