Zoosk, Match, OurTime, and eHarmony are full of smart, nice, and attractive women proselytizing boredom! Who among us doesn't have forbidden thoughts of lust and things darker seeking to enjoy life? Those people do as well but they act like they don't I hate that! I'm supposed to use this space to tell you about me.....Ok, If you let me see the real you, the dark and light, your wretchedness and glory, your depravity/kinky side and holiness, the ugly and the beauty, I would find you to be wonderful. This is the very definition of grace and I will do the same. I'm a 6'6 235lb Black man, well educated, successful in a very vanilla career.

My Ideal Person A naughty girl masquerading as a classy, nice lady during the day. A woman seeking a lover who wants her sexually disheveled, with everything and for all the reasons that wake her up in a haste panties wet, with her dark desires that prevent a daily good nights rest.

A woman who feels she deserves a lover who makes her feel safe yet frightens her a little. A woman seeking a lover who listens to your moans of pleasure like a audience listening to a great Opera singer. If this sounds like you why are you still reading this and not replying?