*UPDATE* You would think it wouldn't have to be said, but please, PLEASE, PLEEEEAAASE have a recent pic available to send if it's not already in your profile. I'll be perfectly honest (because it seems most people can't anymore), but the physical attraction HAS to be there. I'm not a shallow person, far from it; I can fall for a funny, witty, personable girl..but chances are, if I don't find you physically appealing, I most likely won't get close enough to find out just how cool you are. And ladies, no need to sugar-coat it, you feel the same way. BTW, face pics wouldn't hurt. I know us men are generally fixated on other body parts not associated with your cranium but I'd appreciate a chance to get a look at yours (I actually look at it when I'm talking to you *gasp*) Hey there, Recently divorced and it's time to enjoy living. I've always been able to appreciate a woman's form and sensuality, provided said woman is comfortable in her own skin. The look is not important as long as the gal is confident and easygoing. I'm an average male with an above average appetite for giving oral. Hopefully, pursuing this avenue will provide me with what I am seeking. I'm not looking for any commitments or drama, just good, clean fun. I'm also very generous with massages; not a pro but I've never received complaints. I'm very sarcastic with a touch of wit (purely accidental, trust me) here and there. Hopefully you have tough skin ;) Honestly, though, I am just an easy-going guy who doesn't take much seriously unless it's called for.

My Ideal Person Confident, not cocky; sensual, not slutty; easygoing, not uptight....those are all things I'm *not* looking for. I want the cocky, slutty, uptight girl....oh wait...no...the first one was right. Be confident in your own skin...have fun and feel sexy, because you *ARE*.Right?....riiiiiight?

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Actually, a simulated scenario (for some reason)
is a recently recurring fantasy I've had pop into my
head constantly.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Jessica Biel.....do I really need to explain myself?

Have you ever had cybersex?:
Not yet, but I definitely want to try it.

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