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Just curious: How many people have found adult friends on AdultFriendFinder  

CeriosEros 39M
615 posts
8/20/2018 4:51 am

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4/8/2019 10:09 pm

Just curious: How many people have found adult friends on AdultFriendFinder

I've been on this site for years now and never been close to getting any action. I'm just curious about how many people are actually hooking up here. Am I the only person here sexual frustrated or am I just a loser who can't get wet even if he jumped into the ocean.

P.s. The poll only has 10 spots so I could find a place for the flirts. If you're just on this site to flirt comment it. With the word flirt.
I'm a man and I've had one or multiple encounters
I'm a man and I've never had any luck
I'm a woman and I've had one or multiple encounters
I'm a woman and I've never had any luck
I'm a trans person and I've had one or multiple encounters
I'm a trans person and I've never had any luck
We're a couple and we've had one or multiple encounters
We're a couple and we've never had any luck
We're a group and we found one or multiple people for our encounters
We're a group and we haven't had any luck


CeriosEros 39M
642 posts
8/20/2018 4:55 am

I thought that this poll already existed but I couldn't find it. So I made it. Like the meme of leia and luke kissing on the death star with the caption "What happens on the Deathstar stays on the Deathstar".


Brownie202 67F  
2680 posts
8/20/2018 5:19 am

Not easy for me but it's because I don't want just anybody to be able to meet. I have preferences which some men think us women shouldn't have. It's ok for them to want what they do but women shouldn't. Ummm. No.

Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth.

If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.


Dick4001567 64M
3941 posts
8/20/2018 5:26 am

I've been here over 13 years myself and have at least 8 encounters during that time span and made some good friends out of it whom I am still good friends with today!


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
8/20/2018 6:41 am

Your subject line asks "How many people have found adult friends" but the rest is about "hooking up" - 2 completely different things. That won"t help when it comes to communicating with women.

I'm here for over 5 years and have met - in person - over a dozen women. Not all have resulted in sex but a majority have. I don't handle an interaction like a lot of guys do according to the women I've talked to. I don't focus on the sex part and the guys who do make it easier for me because the women can choose who they play with.

"hooking up" is a marketing term BTW

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


seems6666 53F  
4838 posts
8/20/2018 8:24 am

I've had 2 relationships from this site, one lasted 10 years, the other a year.
I have also met a few men over the years, generally one night stands.
As Redrock said he doesn't focus on the sex part, and has had success, most men's attitude is just "fancy a fuck" ,, which for the record,,, would not engage me in conversation, let alone meeting,


smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
8/20/2018 8:33 am

Over the years I've had various combinations of one or two time encounters, or FWB's of six months or less. These days I have a long distance FWB who I see every couple months or so and that's been going on for four years. The emphasis with him is definitely on "friend" rather than the benefits. We email with each other frequently.

And I should note that I more or less gave up on meeting people from here in 2012 (I've been on the site since 2006) - the only reason I met the current FWB was that we read each other's blogs.


ohioguy606 77M  
326 posts
8/20/2018 9:28 am

Met with some good friends and some good friends I have never met.....


superbjversion2 68F  
24388 posts
8/20/2018 10:13 am

I have been on the site for 8 yrs and have had several long term adult friendships. I have tried to avoid one night stands but they occur. I would be considered an A.FF "success"

Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!


Yoursideguy76 47M

8/20/2018 10:51 pm

There are loads of people on this site, and a great many women and couples state right in their introduction they are looking for sex, always on the hunt, needing a great fu-K, etc. But finding someone for simple enjoyable sex and keeping lives separate is just not easy. I really believe a fair percentage of the real women here who say they want sex are hookers, escorts, generosity seekers.
I assume if you’ve had no luck then you are like me...NOT a John.
I have a dirty mind but the only woman I “pay” is the mother of my child. Haha


CeriosEros 39M
642 posts
8/23/2018 6:05 pm

    Quoting  :

Thanks for sharing your experience. And I'm pretty sure insane. Decades of hornyness have drove me a bit batty.


CeriosEros 39M
642 posts
8/23/2018 6:16 pm

    Quoting Dick4001567:
    I've been here over 13 years myself and have at least 8 encounters during that time span and made some good friends out of it whom I am still good friends with today!
Sounds like you've been having a good time. Thanks for sharing your experience.


CeriosEros 39M
642 posts
8/23/2018 7:43 pm

    Quoting redrockrascal:
    Your subject line asks "How many people have found adult friends" but the rest is about "hooking up" - 2 completely different things. That won"t help when it comes to communicating with women.

    I'm here for over 5 years and have met - in person - over a dozen women. Not all have resulted in sex but a majority have. I don't handle an interaction like a lot of guys do according to the women I've talked to. I don't focus on the sex part and the guys who do make it easier for me because the women can choose who they play with.

    "hooking up" is a marketing term BTW
The subject line is a play on words. This site is Local Swingers. And since the advertising on this site are gifs of porn showing uncensored sex acts and also sex toys and bondage equipment I assumed that people would know what I meant by adult friend. Maybe I was wrong. Thanks for sharing your experience. P.s. hooking up maybe a marketing term but I was referring to the more popular term derived from the African American slang of hook up meaning to be done a favor without asking to be repayed so if two people are hooking up they're giving each other sexual favors without anything expected in return.


CeriosEros 39M
642 posts
8/23/2018 7:49 pm

    Quoting seems6666:
    I've had 2 relationships from this site, one lasted 10 years, the other a year.
    I have also met a few men over the years, generally one night stands.
    As Redrock said he doesn't focus on the sex part, and has had success, most men's attitude is just "fancy a fuck" ,, which for the record,,, would not engage me in conversation, let alone meeting,
Thanks for sharing your experience. And don't worry. I've never asked someone for a fuck. I usually send very detailed non sexual messages. I've never gotten a reply.


CeriosEros 39M
642 posts
8/23/2018 8:11 pm

    Quoting smartasswoman:
    Over the years I've had various combinations of one or two time encounters, or FWB's of six months or less. These days I have a long distance FWB who I see every couple months or so and that's been going on for four years. The emphasis with him is definitely on "friend" rather than the benefits. We email with each other frequently.

    And I should note that I more or less gave up on meeting people from here in 2012 (I've been on the site since 2006) - the only reason I met the current FWB was that we read each other's blogs.
I have basically given up on meeting someone here. I've stopped sending 10 to 15 detailed messages every day and I send one or two in 3 months and I expect not to get a reply but the more blogs I read about other people's exploits I'm compelled to look at my own failures and ask why. This is basically an autopsy of an unfuckable. Just me asking if I'm having a normal experience here or if I'm a special loser. Thanks for sharing your experience.


CeriosEros 39M
642 posts
8/23/2018 8:12 pm

    Quoting Yoursideguy76:
    There are loads of people on this site, and a great many women and couples state right in their introduction they are looking for sex, always on the hunt, needing a great fu-K, etc. But finding someone for simple enjoyable sex and keeping lives separate is just not easy. I really believe a fair percentage of the real women here who say they want sex are hookers, escorts, generosity seekers.
    I assume if you’ve had no luck then you are like me...NOT a John.
    I have a dirty mind but the only woman I “pay” is the mother of my child. Haha
Thanks for sharing your experience.


smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
8/23/2018 9:23 pm

“Just me asking if I’m having a normal experience or if I’m a special loser.”

I think you can see from the poll results that you’re not unique. Seven out of 24 men said they’d never had any luck. The ratios on this site are not favorable to the guys.


CarmelHoneySpice 42F
2 posts
9/3/2018 3:14 am

This site is a joke. I will not be renewing my membership. I've been catfish, husbands pretending to be wives, and single men can't read. Lol! However, some of them have become really good friends.


hardbuns55 59M
475 posts
9/5/2018 10:37 pm

I have had 3 encounters and ongoing chances, cerios in about 6 months. That's pretty good, but i have really put a lotta time and effort into it. Would have hoped for more, but i am still learning the ropes on this site. Getting real people obviously is the key. Keep working my friend and you will find someone.


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